A few years ago, I wrote a blog about finding four-leaf clovers, which you can read here. In that post, I discussed how I discovered many four-leaf clovers. I don't believe it was due to an increase in their numbers that year; rather, I had learned to recognize what I was looking for. The blog emphasizes how we tend to find what we focus on. Our brains quickly adapt to identifying specific patterns—this is particularly relevant when it comes to observing our children's behavi